Guinan: "The idea of fitting in just repels me."
Ten Forward: Guinan tells a Yellow Shirt, aka our protagonist and fellow sufferer Barclay, to not make trouble this time as she hands him a drink. Barclay proceeds to 1) tell off La Forge and shove him across the room into a table, 2) slam a drink, manhandle Riker, and inform him he's nothing but a "pretty manikin in a uniform and full of hot air," and 3) hit on Troi. Successfully. I love this guy! (except for his adjectives. Pretty? Riker? He's a Bear.)
Damn, it was only a holographic fantasy. Barclay's been summoned to a meeting in Cargo Bay 5. La Forge whines to Riker that Barclay is never on time, then yells at Barclay when he does show. Barclay is obviously terrified of his commanding officers to the point of hiding behind some containers.